You will not liberate a man from sinful behavior by berating him, raking him over the coals or by shoving hell fire and brimstone down his throat. Sinful behaviors change when a man catches a glimpse of his true face in the mirror of God’s word. Tell a man what he’s not and he’ll change for the worse. Remind a man of who he is and he will manifest Jesus. (2 Corinthians 3:18, James 1:21-23)
— Jeff Turner